The Reluctant Adventurer: Dating Diary of a 45-year-old Divorcee

The Reluctant Adventurer: Dating Diary of a 45-year-old Divorcee

I join an online group that calls itself “A 40s friendliers group” and my inbox pings with a request from “Roy”, asking whether I would like to be connected. There’s no harm if no numbers are being exchanged, I tell myself. A massive step for a middle-class, conservative, 40-something Indian divorcee.
How to Live on 3 Hours a Day

How to Live on 3 Hours a Day

Gharapuri island, an hour away from Mumbai, comes to life at 7 pm. Three hours of electricity is all that its 1,200 residents get. But this Independence Day will bring some light.
O Gore Gore: What It Means to be a Fair-Skinned Man in India

O Gore Gore: What It Means to be a Fair-Skinned Man in India

Living as a fair-skinned man in India is bit of a head-start, but can lead to some pretty awkward moments. As a child, I was repeatedly cast as the only girl in a play at a boy’s school, and in Hyderabad, a man who wanted to take a picture with me, asked me, “Which country?”
A Step-by-Step Guide to Walking Out of an Abusive Marriage

A Step-by-Step Guide to Walking Out of an Abusive Marriage

Why didn’t you fight back when you were slapped and your earring fell off? Why are you still around, crying pathetic pools of tears and snot? Why aren’t you doing what your head tells you to and leave? How did you just become a statistic of physical abuse?