My Adventures in BDSM Wonderland

Love and Sex

My Adventures in BDSM Wonderland

Illustration: Mandar Mhaskar

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arlier this year on Valentine’s Day, my long-term girlfriend Sameera and I were fooling around in my Parel flat. There was a moderate amount of tequila ingestion, and the next thing I knew, I’d decided to pour hot oil on her while pinning her against a wall.

There were several things going on in my head at the same time. Was I offending Sameera somehow? Did I have a secret kinky sex fetish? I mean my sex life had only taken off about nine years ago after I came out as a lesbian, but I’ve always been what Pinterest calls “Timidly Tame”. You know, the uber-gentle, nibble-your-ears-and-cuddle kind of lover.

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